Some trends fall in and out of popularity, but the wedding industry sees the same requests. Steeped in tradition and with a deeply symbolic nature, weddings serve as cherished milestones. And, through evolving trends, changing fashions and cultural shifts, certain wedding customs have stood the test of time. These continue to hold significance and charm for couples across the globe.
In this guide, we’ve explored wedding customs – and some of the most enduring.
What is a wedding tradition?
Firstly, a wedding tradition is a ritual, custom or practice passed through generations. It holds significance, both sentimental and symbolic, and is usually performed as part of the wedding ceremony itself.
Many wedding traditions also carry religious or cultural meaning, which contributes to the overall power and symbolism of the marriage itself. In a Jewish wedding, for example, the ceremony ends with the bride, groom, or both newlyweds smashing a glass by stepping on it. Along with religious examples, there are plenty of secular traditions and those shaped by popular culture too. We’ve listed five of the most popular below.
Which wedding traditions are still popular today?
1. Walking down the aisle
Tradition says that the bride is escorted down the aisle by her father or another significant family member. This is prominent in many weddings today, symbolising a transition from one family to another and the beginning of a new chapter in life.
There are also various modern takes on this tradition. Some brides feel that another figure in their lives, such as their mother or one of their siblings, is better suited for that life-changing walk. Other brides choose to walk down the aisle alone: there are no legal requirements.
2. Exchanging rings
Among the most permanent symbols of love and unity, the exchange of wedding rings transcends cultural boundaries and dates back hundreds of years.
Circular in shape and made of precious metals, engagement rings symbolise eternity and strength. The act of putting the ring on the fourth finger stems from the belief that it touches the vein of love – the one that runs directly to the heart.
3. White wedding dresses
Wedding fashion has changed over time, but the tradition of the bride wearing a white dress pertains. Minimal in design, white wedding dresses traditionally symbolise purity and innocence. They became a key part of popular wedding culture when Queen Victoria wore one for her wedding in 1840. Today, white dresses continue to be embraced by women across the globe.
4. The first dance
Once the happy couple has tied the knot, tradition says that they should enjoy their first dance together as a married couple. This ceremonial celebration often takes place at a wedding reception, marking the beginning of an exciting new journey together.
Whether it’s a classic waltz, a steamy tango or something specially choreographed for the wedding, this moment is completely personal. It allows the newlyweds to take the spotlight and celebrate surrounded by family and friends.
5. Cutting the cake
Finally, cutting the wedding cake is an important moment at most modern weddings.
The act itself represents the couple’s first shared task as spouses. Many couples then also feed each other a slice, which is an often-amusing moment – but symbolises their new commitment to provide for one another and share the sweeter moments in life.
Overview
From cutting the cake to exchanging handpicked wedding rings, many wedding traditions stand the test of time. Remember, there are no rules on what you should or shouldn’t do at your wedding. You can choose or avoid tradition as you see fit – and if you do follow trends, make sure you both enjoy it.
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